Thanks for the support guys. I managed to curb my anger for the day and didn't do anything rash. It's just extremely difficult to comprehend that this is happening and that someone who I spent nearly every waking moment with, apart from work time, together and now to have no contact whatsoever. I struggle to understand how she can't miss me and us at all, when I miss her company, friendship and presence so much.

Trying to GAL.....today I booked a surf trip to the Maldives for October, so looking forward to that.....although no doubt it will remind me of time away in tropical islands with my W and wish she was with me. And also planning on joining a golf club as well now.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011