H is nervous about starting his new job on Wed. He is meeting w/ his new boss tomorrow and then with a new coworker tomorrow evening to start easing into it. I need to get him to talk to me about being nervous so that he knows that I, and I alone, am the one that is here for him.

I am not very good at getting people to start talking about something that is bothering them. Any tips?

Me: 32/ H: 32/ S13/ D5
T: 15/ M: 8
Rock bottom: 4/11
ILYB: 5/11, but I knew it at least a yr before
Gaining acceptance: 8/11

You must be the change you wish to see. - Mahatma Gandhi