E, just wanted to echo what jb has said to you; your H is all over the map and is putting on whatever face he thinks will get him what he wants. The problem is, your H has no clue what he wants.

If you think it's time to call it, then it's time to call it.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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