AC, you and the rest of our little tribe here...parallel universes...I'm aching for you, my friend. As I've said to you, the extreme distance your W is putting between her and you is hard for me to wrap my head around, so I'm not going to say "I know how you feel". Because I don't.

I can say that being in the house as a single person will get easier. You'll have crappy days, like I did today, but it will pass. Making the place your own will help. Thinking about how you will live in it, how you will have friends over for parties and watching sports and backyard cookouts and, if the pendulum swings that way, having someone new in your life to keep you company will help.

"Just keep swimming." Those of you with younger kids will get that one immediately.


H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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