Paige - he currently sees his dad on Mon-Wed for a few hours - H picks him up from daycamp around 5 and keeps him until 8pm. On Fridays, he picks him up but keeps him overnight until 5pm on Saturday. The other days (Sun, Tues, Thurs), I have S7 and H calls to say goodnight.

H is wanting to head toward a 3 days with him, 4 days with me scenario, but looking at how S7 acts, and talking with him, I don't think a scenario where he's away from either of us that long is the right choice.

One of my close friends has a schedule similar to the one we currently have, but her H keeps the kids overnight on his M-W, as well as Friday - that's the scenario I'm considering, but I'd like to watch S7 a bit longer before suggesting any sort of change (since it's only been 2.5 weeks that he's been doing this).


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11