E - It sounds like your H is on his heels right now. It sounds like he is doing all things we say in DB'ing NOT to do. He sounds desperate. It sounds like he is trying the wrong things, going down cheeseless tunnels so to speak, especially by listing everything he has tried.
Originally Posted By: Endeavor
Originally Posted By: jbnati
Is there anything he can do to "right the ship", so to speak?
Actions. Consistent effort. No more vacillating. He needs to sit me down and speak with strength and conviction. There is a way he can speak to me that will make me believe him but I'm not telling him how to do that...
I think your H needs a clear picture on what this looks like. This sounds like it is very key to me. I think this would be best place for him to concentrate his efforts. I wish I could give you a roadmap on how he could here from where he is. Perhaps you re-phrase it in action-oriented terms for him?
I don't blame you one bit for not wanting to live through this anymore. If you do it too long, it'll kill you.
Hang in there, E. I, only with many others are here for you with our prayers, thoughts, and support.
