I have a problem creating scenarios in my mind, she get's a text and I wonder who it is but don't want to ask.I have to find a way to stop before I ruin our chances. Just last week W told me I was smothering her. Help. Finding it difficult to get past the past.
The past is part of you. I don't think one gets past it, but learns to accept it and changes their perspective about it to move beyond a this happened to me stance. She's telling you to stop smothering her. What are you doing to give her some space? I don't think there's going to be a comfortable way to move forward. Fear and mistrust will be a part of things for now, but you must act in ways that will move the R forward. Try some things and see what happens.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
