As much as I love my W, this truly is unacceptable to me. I'm really starting to feel like the next time I talk to her, I'm going to draw a line and say that we both need some space during this time
I would suggest before you express any of this to her,you really clarify for yourself what these boundaries are for, their benefits, their purpose, etc..
I agree that you need to establish some personal boundaries for your own well being - but just be solid about it before you go throwing the b-word around.
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.