H dropped S7 off at 5pm today - he had sent mail last night asking if he could not keep him until 7 on Saturdays, as it prevents him making any dinner plans on the weekend. I had replied and said 5 would be fine, but not knowing if he would see the email, wasn't sure when they would be here. No big deal - could have texted to ask, just didn't care to interact with him. Chose to just be home by 5.

Also requested that H leave some boxes so I could pack up his books, etc. Asked him to stop coming into the house and taking things without telling me.

H - "I'm sorry, did I take anything you need, or need me to bring back?"

Me - "No, but you took more than we discussed - serving dishes and what not. I just don't like coming home and finding you've been here without telling me."

H - "I'm sorry. I won't do it again."

He seemed contrite, although probably he was just in a hurry to placate me and leave.

Regardless, I'll pack up his things and hopefully we can end this soon.


H: 39, Me: 37
SD: 18, S: 7
M: 9, T: 10
"I love you but am not in love with you" - 5/11
Discovered online affair - 7/11