jb, I hope it doesn't sound like I was discounting Pysch's suggestion of a 180. I just found his suggestion cute, that's all. I apologize if it came across as dismissive.
No, I was just giving Psych some credit for his suggestion. I think he's providing some very valuable input to your sitch.
E - I am so sorry you have come to this point. (((E)))
Sounds like the email knocked your H on his heels.
Originally Posted By: Endeavor
I said we needed to tell the kids before school started. He said we needed to think about it more before we did anything rash, and that he needed time to respond to my email properly. I said that he'd had 4 months since he bombed me to think about our M. That we had spoken about our R for hours during those 4 months, that we knew what the issues were and if he had no hope, there was nothing left to think about...
So I get the impression his bombs weren't sincere? Like he had no intention of following through? However, because of the repeated bombings, you are not truly living and you're always on edge. I know that feeling and it's very unhealthy.
I may have more later on - I need to get downstairs to be with my son.
(((E)))
