What I don't understand is that he is so angry with me. But I am the one that caught him lying to me. He told me that I have trust issues. Well, I try to explain to him, when you catch someone lying to you face to face, then how can you trust them after. I am the one that should be angry with him, but I am willing to put that in the past and move on.

I am giving him his space. The only time I contact him is to inform him of anything to do with our D.

I have written him a letter, but unsure when I should give it to him.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)