You are saying unless he goes to C he is not commited at all and this will never work? How can that be? My C says that a lot of guys do not go to C. It is normal. I know that H is selfish but I thought with DBing that I would be able to turn him around and we could finally work on our issues and he would work on his once he is at the place to commit. I read other people situations and some seem even worse then mine where their Hs are still with OW. Mine is not. Mine is at home with me, just not all there emotionally yet. Am I completly wrong about this?
I understand how you feel since you have seen other situations that appear worse AND your h is still at home. But DBIng is NOT about you changing HIM...it's about you changing YOU. Please please, get that.
When you see this, it'll be a start.
IDK why he won't go to c unless he doesn't feel like hearing that an affair was wrong
and that it cannot continue.
What is it that he is doing DIFFERENTLY THAN BEFORE that makes you think he won't cheat again, given that this isn't the first time
and he won't go to c??? Will he stop all contact with OW?
So...what WILL he do to regain your trust? (Other than words I mean...)
your answers might be right in front of you....
Sorry
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
