Hi Calystra - Sorry you are back here, but speaking from the other side - you may find yourself much happier in the future. You may remember, my H and I reconciled after his affair. Things were grand for a few years - then he flamed out again and we divorced. I was devastated, but as soon as I decided to LET GO - my life became grand! No more walking on eggshells around his chronically unhappy self. Spending my time doing the things I wanted to do with the people I liked.
Now, 2 1/2 years later, I am playing the drums in an amateur rock band, am finally moved into my beautiful new house, and have a tall dark handsome new boyfriend who is 9 years younger. Life is good!
You may remember, my H and I reconciled after his affair. Things were grand for a few years - then he flamed out again and we divorced. I was devastated, but as soon as I decided to LET GO - my life became grand! No more walking on eggshells around his chronically unhappy self. Spending my time doing the things 