Gosh, I don't know. I mean, a lot of me really wants to not be friends with her anymore because this whole thing tears me up so badly inside. I really don't want to communicate the message to her that I think that her new relationship is okay, because it's totally not. And I'm worried that being "friends" with her is going to inadvertently convey that message. The thing is, when I tried telling her that what she was doing was wrong, she only backed away further and held on tighter to it.
However, at the same time, I also know that many WAS' feel a lot of guilt about what they're doing, even if they don't show it or want to look at it within themselves. I'm not necessarily being nice to her because I want her back but because I want to get in touch with that "guilty" side of her, the side that's rational and actually does feel remorse. I don't know. I know that I would feel a lot better if I didn't have to talk to her anymore, but I don't want her to think that I'm not here for her, either.
