She was my whole world, and yes I didn't always make her feel like that, and I didnt always tell her, but I feel I didn't know how. I never grew up in an affectionate household and I guess I carried those traits into my marriage.
Well if she was your whole world regardless of whether you told her or not, that is not a healthy place.
Then or now.
In healthy relationships people are evenly yoked. They are two pillars that hold up the crossbeam.
If one ox is pulling harder or one is not pulling hard enough the wagon goes off course or nowhere.
If one pillar is taller or one shorter than the other the beam will fall.
OK you get it. And it can't always be evenly balanced or won't be but it takes correction to try to keep it there.
It takes work.
You are here and you are willing to work. Your W well she isn't right now and may never be.
Which part do you control?
Which part of the equation can you change?
Get busy Cam.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
