Hi Peter, I just read through your situation, and feel for you. One thing is at least youre still living with your wife and in contact......it should make it more of a chance to fix your marriage.
My w does not want to talk to me or see me....and just blocks everything out. She too went to MC and I now think it was just an excuse to say she tried...it's BS...she had made her mind up long before that and was just dragging it out and leading me on.
Thanks for your concern, I am worried about myself too, as nothing I do makes me feel any better. The longer this goes on the worse I feel and the lonelier and more I miss my w and our life together. It takes every inch if my being to not call her and beg her to reconsider.


M 35
W 31
Separated 2/2011 but still together
Ended it 4/2011
Together 8 yrs
Married 3.5 yrs
Lawyers involved 6/2011