btw, you don't actually "KNOW" that she's with him now anyhow, correct?
And is it true or not, that the only answer you'll actually believe, is "yes she is"?
See, it's a bit of a lose lose for her. On one hand, You want her to be honest...BUT....otoh you can't handle the truth even if the truth is that she's NOT seeing him...
I can imagine her saying (and meaning it)
that she's taking a break from him AND you,
to clear her head...THEN
you'll be the one pressuring her...(which we actually "KNOW" she does not want.)
Don't rush your decision.
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