I've done the cold and distant with my husband. He accepted it and became cold and distant with me. We've done that now for 7 weeks - today I changed my mind and decided to be friendly to my H. Love blossoms from friendship - I'm not being overly friendly with him, but I changed my tact. He was friendly back to me - but I'm not talking to him about OW, and his love life etc, but I want him to know I'll be here when/if he needs me.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11