By the way, Song, I'm currently in the process of purchasing my Kindle version of "No More Mr. Nice Guy." I read just a couple of reviews for the book and realized that the thing was practically written for me. I am a "nice guy," and I think that my nice-guy-ism did a lot of damage to our relationship. I have no doubt that I'm probably going to devour this book in just a couple of days.
I'm really glad you took my suggestions the way you did west.
It's hard to know how to communicate with someone you have never met.
Read it. Read the other posts here. And think about it.
Remember.
There is a universe between being too friendly right now and being a dick.
It's that space in-between you need to find.
Compassionate.
Yet firm and strong.
It's not easy. I get it. But work on it.
Be well man.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
