IB. I haven't really been following your thread, but for some reason was on the boards tonight. I can tell you from experience that going to classes, joining support groups, etc. is far and above the greatest thing to help heal. The flip side of healing is that you will be on a quiet roller coaster as you dredge up and deal with your emotions. So quiet you may not really notice it.
My suggestion is to push on. It'll hurt at times. It'll feel good at times. But it's worth it. Stick with it.
Oh, and don't try to be your "old" self. Try to be you. It'll all work out in time even better than you can imagine.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
