Thanks for the update. Concerning finances, as a reminder, I revised the "not contributing" comment (which was made with attorneys involved) over summer and contributed $170 toward their activities. Having said that, I will contribute moving forward and in time, it will be more. Thanks for keeping them involved and active. No one feels worse about my financial situation than me. It will pass..and yes we have great kids (and I tell them often), that have a great mom, living in a great community with great schools.