Thanks. No, he doesn't know yet. I just received the papers to review today. He seems sincerely sad. But, he IS a good liar I have come to learn. But, not sure a person can sit in their office and cry in front of others and have it be just for a show.?!? Or, can he?
I know he loves our kids. He is not acting like it now but he does.

He is constantly through out conversation reassuring me I was such a good wife and am a wonderful mom and how greatful he is for that.
He asked how kids were and I said fine but we are all greiving the loss of who we thought he was. I asked how someone could change so quickly he said he didn't know.
Drinking came up just a little. He is still in denial. Says he cut back. Not from what I have heard.
He said OW is not worth any of this. Never has been.
I do still love him but it really is getting easier and easier to get over these conversations each time. Which I think is good.