I just wanted to add I was NOT being sarcastic. I really do hope the letter gets your wife thinking in way that she comes back to because of the person you've become.
I don't think you want her to come back b/c of pressure or fear alone.
I guess I would have just worded what you said differently, if I was going to write something like that. For example, I wouldn't have used the world "detach" in an email.
I won't judge you for being lawerly.
Thanks Harrier. I know that you wish me the best.
As for whether or not things could have been worded differently goes, I'm sure that I could have... but there are a million woulda, coulda, shouldas with this...
There is no manual on how to do this stuff... no 'right' answer... we play our cards and let the chips fall where they may...
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce