Okay, I'm going to disagree here. A bit.

I would say that Denver is still missing the point. He said he wrote the letter in part to pressure her.

Uhhhh, as that her No. 1 complaint during the months of April, May, June, etc.? he was -- pressuring here.

So what does he do? Pressure her by his own admission. Now it's in a different form, but it's pressure none the less.

I think the dating think is a veiled threat. It may feel good but I don't think it helps your M at all especially in the future. I think the OW admission to her was to pressure her as well.

What's done is done, you know your situation, but I see a lot of the old Denver in that email. This could go one of 2 ways - I hope it gos the good way for your sake.


Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.