Stop beating yourselve up. It doesn't help you. You have accepted your mistakes now it is time to move forward. You are no longer the old Cam you are a new Cam. Use the skills you have learned here as painful as it is. You are not a failure and I bet you have no proof that you are. Keep working on yourself. I'm new here but reading other peoples' post really helps and is very educating.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden