Partner left after 9 yrs - reconciled now married!

[AliSuddenly]

Thanks girls, great advice.. she's still waking every 3 hours through the night.. always 2.20 and 5.20 am then 7.20 am. She is going down by 9 now, and has the tiniest top up at 10.30, so cant really complain but its definetly not enough sleep !! She's pretty good though. I just need to crack this putting her down without having to hold her first for 25 minutes !!

Mish - we are giving a bottle of formula now at night, 2 ozs ish and that seems to zonk her out !!

Michelle - We have tried the blanket on the back thing before putting her down and it definetly helps.. but we still have to hold her for 20 mins! Its a bummer, but I hope we can wean her off it soon.

So wierd to be posting here about this stuff !! I guess me and H's R is just ticking along now we have a baby. I was worried abou the effect on our R, but I've somewhat got over that now. We are being very sociable since we had her (yes we call her Daisy, Anja is her middle name Mish).. and making sure it doesnt stop us seeing friends. We had friends for dinner last night, another couple coming tonoght and then a barbecue for 16 friends on Saturday as its H's birhtday Sunday.. to be honest its almost a bit much really, its been a social whirl since she was 3 weeks old, lol !

Thanks to all my friends here