And finally home

[mishka422]

HUH??? When did this come about and when are you going?????

[kat727]

How long will that be for? Happy for you but hope you know you will have to get that balance down soon. It will keep being an issue until you find it.

Hugs, kat

[JCJ]

Probably November. I'm very excited!! It's my last chance, next year I'll be too old for the visa.

I was walking down the street yesterday and I had a random flash of memory of when I organised marriage counseling for exh and I his excuse for not turning up was... wait for it...

'I can't come to counseling because I haven't been eating enough bananas so I have low potassium and a therefore a really bad headache'.

I had completely forgotten and don't know why it came into my head but I laughed out loud in the street. What an idiot. Does that go down as one of the most random excuses ever??

[AliSuddenly]

WOWEEE! Fantastic! Thats a great idea, wow you're really on a roll with this new exciting life! Maybe a red herring, but will Joe be joining you in NZ?

Ah, that is a lame ass* excuse, but I guess he couldnt say.. I cant come because theres no point, I'm seeing someone else..? Have you had any contact with him/your cat since you've been back?

Al x

[JCJ]

Hello Stranger

I know but he could have just said I don't want to go. Still, the banana was amusing!

I'm just taking advantage of the opportunities I have now I am young and free. I have friends that are in Wellington and I think it'll be lots of fun.

Re Joe, I'm not sure. He probably would come over and has said he wants to, but I'm not making firm plans. We both miss each other and keep in contact a lot. He sent me some really lovely earrings in the post - very sweet!

[JCJ]

Oh and no contact with h. I have been tempted a few times but I've moved on and it is for the best. It isn't a place I want to revisit in my life.

Funny and strange because I have never cut somebody out of my life before. And I do miss my cat but I try not to think about it.