What foundation have you laid to give you this answer?
If you don't answer it appears you are hiding something and avoiding her which is evident in her question to you.
If you tell her the truth she will likely see this as old Denver and a setback to (if any) feelings she might be considering to re-engage with you.
The real problem here is you have not established the terms under which such a question should be answered by you.
I mean that you have not set boundaries, communicated them, and their consequences and most importantly...
enforced them.
So how would your position be different if you had done that?
"W I believe you know what I want in our relationship. I have communicated that in very clear terms. I respect that you may not want the same thing right now. Until that day comes, and you have decided to commit yourself fully to our relationship then I cannot and will not engage in any discussions with you about it. Of course it is up to you whether to respect what I ask of you but be prepared that I respect myself enough to do what I say I will do."
These are my words. You need to find your own Denver. Ones that speak for you.
The second question?
Originally Posted By: Denver
* Thoughts on WTF W is asking me that question???
pft.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
