How about the truth? Man I would have loved it if my w told me she started dating. Would it have still hurt, absolutely, but it didn't hurt as much as her hiding it from me. Breaking that trust. I guess people can argue it's none of her business.. and in some ways they are right. But why hurt her if you don't have to?
* Thoughts on WTF W is asking me that question???
Sure. There could be a ton of them. But isn't this considered mind-guessing?
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
