Hey IB, I am happy that you feel good about going to this meeting. I have wondered myself about getting into some kind of support group locally. What I did do tonight was to send an email to a friend---it's actually the mother of one of my former students who is my close friend and confidante, and her mom, well she was betrayed by her dad who carried on an affair with his secretary for 6 years and now she is divorced and in her 60s. She is handling it but really hurting. So I asked her if she'd like to have dinner with me. I hope that we can help each other. Sometimes I think that there are so many friendships that are forged out of these tragedies, and then I think, we need to focus on the outcome, the friendships, that never would have been, as opposed to the trauma between 2 people that did occur...
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
