I insist on custody because I truly do not feel she is fit to be a parent at this time, and may not be until she comes out of this. She abandoned the kids and our S6 has only spent one night with her in the last 8 weeks. Nothing prevented her from taking them any night or on weekends, and when I asked her last week about visiting them Friday or Saturday she said that she had "plans" and then said,"I make plans for ME!! I don't make plans for them, I make plans for ME!!!" right in front of them. It's obvious she does not put any import to their needs while I have been here for them EVERY DAY of the last 3 months and before while she has acted like a teenager. It's not malicious, I just want to be assured my kids are safe as they are small and unable to protect themselves from the Monster she has shown many times in front of them and to them.
M 39 W 41 Married 18 years Together 21 D18 D10 S6 D filed May 16, 2011 Bomb Dropped May 18, 2011 D in process