My kids are really hurting. Many times I am just speachless as to what to say to them. I validate but they are also sayingg things like " maybe he was disappointed in us or maybe we are annoying". So sad. I do reassure them that this is not the case.
THis is all too hard for an adult to comprehend. How does a child? The longer the NC he has with the kids goes the harder the reconection is going to be.
Some say the D papers may wake him up? Has this ever really happened to anyone? At least for the sake of involvment with the kids. I am no longer trying to save M but he needs to be involved in his children's lives.
