Oh, forgot to mention that at break today Mecca Mamma told me that she went out this weekend. She went to Canada's Wonderland with her housemates. I told her I was glad she got out and had some fun. Last week she'd been telling me how she didn't go out much, went to bed at 9pm, she was "old and tired" etc. Today she says "that's not who I really am. I get mad at myself sometimes. I don't like doing nothing, going to bed at 9 pm, playing FB games. I like to do things!" I'd like to do things too...but I'm not quite there yet. Shrink suggested I ask her for a light afternoon adventure some weekend, something that doesn't reek of "date" but of a fun afternoon with no expectaions...and that way she can still get to bed by 9 pm! lol.