"You don't attract what you want you attract what you are." I do like that.
But...what if I want to keep the crazy hot emotionally nuts girl that I attracted?
We had great chemistry right off the bat so that's what has confused me now.
My hair grows really fast so I tend to cut it short. I also like mohawks and the only way to do that is to shave down the sides. Asking why men with hair shave it is like asking why women with large chests get breast reductions...it baffles us guys.
On the 7th I took a line out of the midlife crisis section of The Divorce Remedy. I texted her, "I'm sorry you're so upset. I wish things were different." She pounded into me again about the physical contact during our last time seeing each other and all I said is, "I'm sorry." She said I always say that and nothing changes. I finished up with, "I'm crazy :("
I found out from the mutual friend that at some point during this she was dating yet another "old high school friend" for a short time which might be part of why she got so upset with me touching her. Only reason the mutual friend found out about this guy is because the guy dumped her and she cried to the mutual friend.
Since the 7th I've made no contact and had zero from her. I figured my only chance was to LRT because anything else would be chasing behavior.
Healthy or not, what I'm wondering is if DB techniques can work in dating? Should they even be used in a dating situation? And if there is any inclination of "yes" then is my best bet just sticking to LRT?
