so one issue i could not let go with my wife was that she still had a picture of her and baby daddy as a couple on her facebook page. i asked her to take it down nicely a few times, and sort of fought about it last night...

well she took it down, and all the pictures of her and i. guess i got what i wanted and pushed her away from me even more. im a rock star.

time is not my friend, cause patience is what i have to show her, and i cant do that in 1 day. how to learn patience. /sigh