Be careful, LP...it's easy to interpret politeness and even caring concern as something more than they are. I've read too many posts just in the last few months about WAS's or STB-WAS's who smile at their spouses while they gut them from one end to the other.

My W continues to try to be "nice" as she also continues to stab me in the heart. I'm learning to write it off as guilt, not caring.

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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