I tap out...

[Denver_2010]

I remember one day putting on stockings to wear under my skirt and H stopped me and asked,"why don't you wear thigh-highs and a garter belt?"

I said, "I've never thought about it."

H: (with a hint of anger) "Most women wear garter belts."

I sat there shocked for a long moment. On what planet? Women wear garter belts when they're dressing up for a man, shooting a lingerie ad or porn video. Not when they were getting ready to go and work nine hours in the dead of winter. It occurred to me that his expectations were so far out there that I would never meet them. I'd put on thigh highs and garter belts for him when we were being intimate/romantic, but he expected that every time I wore stockings I would look like the women he spent hours viewing online. Totally skewed.

Your H seriously needs a reality check. That is nuts. Does he really believe that??? Craziness.