Originally Posted By: West
That's really my main goal right now: to just be happy.


That is a good goal West.

Also it is good to do a little digging into your M and more importantly yourself.

A question for you that helped me:

You know WHAT happened or you a trying still to answer that.

The question is WHY it happened.

And you can lose your way real quick if you focus on her whys.

So you let the relationship get out of balance. You became a yes man.

WHY?

Start digging there West.

Also what complaints did she have against you? The ones that sting?

Those are the things to look at in yourself. Things maybe you want to change?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am