You are just looking at the circumstances. Making assumptions is only hurting yourself and hindering your detachment process.
Look, my H is living with the OW, and now his parents have befriended her and have started to distance themselves from their granddaughter and myself. I guess what I am saying, things could be worse. But, if you are going to follow your beliefs and values about marriage, then just detach from all of this! Even if D goes through, it is a piece of paper. Turn your worries to God, this will not end soon and there is nothing you can do to change her mind, other than be the LIGHT! Let her see you and the family are the best choice, so one day when she wakes up from this craziness, she will know, you waited and allowed her to make her mistakes, but are ready and willing to heal and love her.
Remember the vows were for better or worse. This is worse and it will take a long time before it gets better.
(((HUGS)))
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.
