Do you really want her to return to you because she needs to?
You are three months post bomb...
I know, the first months to year are the hardest ones...
The ones where we are the most fatalistic...
Right now, your W is doing what most of them do, surrounding herself with people who see things the way she is seeing them...
Who won't tell her she is wrong for wanting a D or any of the other things she might be doing. She is surrounding herself with people who will validate her position...
It is a normal part of this process...
I understand that you are a conservative Catholic...
So what does this all mean to you?
What sort of judgements and thoughts will you hold toward your W if this D happens?
What, in your view, should your W be doing right now?
Not trying to upset you or make you defensive, but you haven't posted a ton lately and I am digging a bit here...
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
