i keep re-reading advice in these posts and other situations.
i re-read the book last night. one part hit home, the story in DR about the wife who wanted a trial separation, and it turned into a full by his pursuing. thats total me. how do i STOP.
i get to talking, see it went bad then talk some more to try and get myself out of it... its soooo horrible.
do i really not care about her enough to stop? am i too set in my ways to change? is it truly that i cant control her and this is the last thing i have left is talking? just trying to figure myself out before its too late.
any books to try or advice? i know im making a choice here, and its the wrong one. why do i have no respect for her boundries?
