Dropped by D10 & D8 sports camp yesterday, however, they were not there..called w to inquire if i was at the wrong field.

w: oh, they didn't want to do it after all. And, since it was 9-3 all week and all the prodding I had to do for the soccer camp, add in the cost and I just didn't want to force them, etc. on and on justifying.

me: ok, could you please just give me a courtesy call next time?

w: I didn't know you were going.

me: well, it was on the summer schedule we talked about at the beginnning of summer and I wanted to stop by like I did a few times during soccer camp or any other event the kids have. I make just about everything.

w: ok, are you still picking up the kids at 4:30 (usually 5)

m:yes

w: I have plans during that time, so I 'll receive them at 9:00

She was trying to bait me I think and all I wanted was a heads up and courtesy..an apology would of been great, but nope. And what's with the "receive" comment? What are they a foottball?

No big deal, thing is, I often wonder with little things like this how waw would be upset as well. So, for me, when it comes to the kids, don't fu@# around!

Anyway, had the kids from 4:30-9 yesterday. Took 'em to waterpark. W did include an extra free day pass for me which was nice and didn't have to do. Thanked her. All had a good time. D10 & D8 went off on the water slides for the most part while D5 & S3 and I were in the wave pool and this captain ship with all kinds of slides, squirt guns, etc. fun!

Stayed until park closed then ordered a pizza and took to play ground. S3 fell asleep so I let him while we ate then the girls played and I kept close to son who was still sleeping.

It was dark when I returned them and they wanted to stay with me which always makes me feel appreciated. W asked about a bill and we said good night.

I've conceded that going dark is not possible when you have 4 kids.


Me: 38
W: 34
D:10,8,5
S: 3
M: 12
T: 13
Bomb:2/1/11
Sep: 3/2/11
WAW Filed: 4/1/11
MC: 3/11-5/11
Pre-trial: 8/30/11