You are saying unless he goes to C he is not commited at all and this will never work? How can that be? My C says that a lot of guys do not go to C. It is normal. I know that H is selfish but I thought with DBing that I would be able to turn him around and we could finally work on our issues and he would work on his once he is at the place to commit. I read other people situations and some seem even worse then mine where their Hs are still with OW. Mine is not. Mine is at home with me, just not all there emotionally yet. Am I completly wrong about this?
