Reflection

[GAL Man]

Ken, Not having much time to digest the last few days, too much crap going on.

LP, excellent advice, thanks


Journaling

Sleeping really well ATM strangely, but sooooo tired, mentally!!!!

I haven't had time to really digest things as W is taking things to another level now!!

Loads of emails back and forth over the last couple of days, but below is text I sent yesterday morning which prompted the next round of emails (which I may post later)

Ohh BTW, W's last reply to my last constructive text (as on last page) was, "bollocks"

My text
W

Originally S12 wanted to do the weekend only at yours from next week and D14 Thur, Fri, Sat

Firstly, I have said they should both do the same days

Secondly, after your conversation with D14 Monday night, which she told me about, I have suggested to both kids that they come to yours from Wed, which they have both agreed too.

Lastly, and finally, I am happy personally and morally with week on week off, however, as I have said before many times, this isn't about either of us, but ALL about our children and what THEY want. Do not try and lay guilt at their door over their choices, they are children.

PS...Now that you have a new boyfriend, I hope you can respect my wishes and emotional well-being of our children and not introduce them to your boyfriend unless you have been together long enough to be sure the relationship is stable. I will do the same

W reply - I will email my full response later

I know I can not control others actions, but I am frustrated that W thinks all this is from me, she can not see I am actually trying to help. My friend said to me that W made the choice to leave; this is a consequence of her actions and not to worry about it.

Thing is, I am happy with the current arrangements of week on week off. This just seems morally right to me, I do not want to take time off W, BUT this is what my kids want!!