My friends did that too. Said that he was a bit full of himself. I will say that if it wasn't about him then he just couldn't be bothered.
Allow yourself to go through the stages of grief. It will take a while but before you know it you will feel like your old self before you ever got married. Keep focusing on getting back to you.
Kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory