My faith gives me the courage to move forward

[MrBond]

It just seems needless to tell your son especially when you were making a big deal about your H seeing another woman while married. You said you didn't want to get him confused about your situation any further but it seems by telling him, you might have confused him more.

In any event, you never did respond to many posters' questions to you about what kind of help you were getting and what steps you were taking to move on.

You fall into the same patterns all the time. You condemn your H, then you say you can't live without him, then you blame the OW, then you complain about how you are so unsure about your financial future, then you say you can't take it any more, etc. And round and round it goes.

It's conflict avoidance at it's worse. In fact, you don't even talk to your H. What positive action have you done?