Treading water - time and patience

[NYCPeter]

I understand Endeavour - I think the last two disappointments were big ones and show that my W is ready to quit on the M.

1. Telling her friend over the Weekend she is done and nothing will change.
2. Not wanting to go on another date despite saying she enjoyed the evening.

Her "I don't know what I want" responses just seem a way of avoiding the issue, as many on here have stated - actions speak louder than words.

Not sure what to expect from MC tomorrow - I'm sure I will be asked about things in our M that I feel we need to work on. Intimacy is the huge one for me - I really cannot bare being 20 feet from my wife in a different bedroom every night.

At least this is a GAL night for me (well I always do this on Weds) - soccer and a few beers will be a welcome distraction and it'll be nice to be around people who want me there.