Is there any reason why you mentioned it to your son? Since you only met the guy once, you shouldn't have told him. I could be wrong, but it sounds like you used the guy to try and get your H jealous.
Not healthy.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.