Ugh! It's those things you read in the letter that make the skin crawl. As for the gifties, if he wasn't doing those so much before as his LL's, then it probably is his way of trying to make it all go away.
The big red stop sign does help when those things creep into your mind and won't let go.
I must say, I was quite surprised to see you say the word [censored] (sukks) haha, I thought I would try it to see if it would be censored!!
All I had to do was register the account number and phone numbers online, and each phone has its list of calls, and I have programmed all the ones I know with the names, so if ow name ever pops up, I will see it, unless it is a different one. It doesn't say ow, it says ho. crazy