Many of the things my H has said to me lately have been weighing heavily on my mind.
I wrote him an email letting him know that I have accepted his statement that this M is hopeless and that I can no longer be in a marriage that is always being threatened with D.
Even when he was in, he wasn't completely in. From the beginning.
I was thinking today that this is what he knows. His parents did this back and forth thing for 16 years after they first separated, and his Dad put his Mom through emotional hell.